have a yabba dabba doo time, a dabba doo time

special people will always be special people. there's a little hole in your heart for each one of them. that's why it hurts so bad, because it's etched deep. deep in your heart.

“My theory is about moments, moments of impact. My theory is that these moments of impact, these flashes of high intensity that completely turn our lives upside down actually end up defining who we are. The thing is each one of us is the sum total of every moment that we’ve ever experienced with all the people we’ve ever known. And it’s these moments that become our history. Like our own personal greatest hits of memories that we play and replay in our minds over and over again” (The Vow)

I have my theory: My theory is about friendships, friendships that last. My theory is that these bonds of friendships, these tight strands that make us or break us actually end up defining who we are. The thing is each one of us is the sum total of every moment that we’ve ever experienced with all the people we’ve ever known. And it’s these moments that act as our gel and glue.

We may be stuck close as young teenagers, seemingly bonded by childish bff bonds, and as we grow up we seem to drift away, too busy for each other, too caught up in our silly little lives, but once our paths cross once again and we collide we find that that glue is still lasting and that deep down inside we're still the same ol' childish bffs. That bond of friendship was never broken in the first place. It's amazing to have that warm fuzzy feeling, catching up with an old friend whom you thought was merely just a wonderful memory, and feel that everything was just like yesteryear.

"The moment of impact. The moment of impact proves potential for change. Has ripples effects far beyond what we can predict. Sending some particles crashing together. Making them closer than before. While sending others spinning off into great ventures. Landing them where you've never thought you've found them. That's the thing about moments like these. You can't, no matter how hard you try, controlling how it's gonna affect you. You just gotta let the colliding part goes where they may. And wait. For the next collision." (The Vow)